If not sometimes then most of the time, doesn’t it!
You run out of time, the dishes pile up work just drags you down, it is as if life is against you, and when you think you are finally getting your head above it all it feels like another titanic size wave comes crashing down on you!
This happened to me so many times, especially when going through the divorce, I had failed, I failed I was a failure, I knew in my heart that this was not working, him and I were on totally separate paths in so many different ways, I blamed I swore I was so unbelievable broken, that song from city of angels, you bleed just to know you are alive! When in that pit, that line takes on a whole new meaning.
Friends abandoned me, they blame me, and apparently I am still blamed for everything. I backed myself as far into the dark corner as I could possibly get, I was no good to anyone, work was fun, (haha) being told how strong I am etc, and I appreciated that even though I felt like a fake, it gave me the courage and hope that there was still light, I wasn’t done yet, I had to find the energy and strength to drag my broken self out of that corner.
That was three years ago, I wish I had known then what I have come to know now! I want to pass this onto you, I don’t want you hiding out in that revolting dingy dark bacteria infested corner, I really don’t! I want you to feel free, to feel the love, to feel the relief of your back clicking straight, your lungs filling with air as you feel you can truly take a full deep breath for the first time in forever
Really the disturbingly simple truth is that it is up to you! You are in control, you have the power, you have the choice you have the decision it is in your control, it is in your control.
It takes a thought, that’s it, just a thought, you can look every single moment directly in the eye and you then have the power to choose what to do with that very moment, you can either live it, take it by the horns, accept it appreciate it and choose to be happy rather than right. Or you can choose to let it eat you. You can choose to see it as opportunity or you can choose to see it with anger resentment and contempt, either way the moment is there, right in front of you, it is happening weaher you like it or not, and again, you have the power to control what happens with that moment.
What happens is this, as soon as you begin to choose happy and peace over being right and allowing emotions of hurt and self pity and resentment, you build your strength, and the moments start to blend into minute and hours and days, you train your mind to pick the happy side and life absolutely does become easier.
Start right now right here, this is your time, your decision, it’s your move, you get to choose if you are going to change the way you act and react.
Please try this method, give it a whole hearted 2 week one month 6 month a year test run. I guarantee positive results! All it takes is a conscience decision to change how you see a moment, how you react and respond, and a little secret.... the nicer you are to your.... shall we call them enemy, the nicer you are to them the more confused they become and it is the best revenge ever!
That being said, you will realise that even though it starts out as feeling like super awesome revenge... it really feels good and you are able to be free of all those disgusting emotions that really are binding you to that enemy, and that means you are free, then it is them hurting themselves with all the resentment and negativity and you are left to be free and laugh and breath.
I am so excited to hear how it goes, leave me a comment bellow or email me on firstname.lastname@example.org
So come on now, I think I have given you proof enough to give it a try. Test it, I cannot see any logical reason as to why you can’t and the other best part is..... IT’S FREE!!!!